Saturday, July 21, 2012

Who would have thought......

Moving out of my apartment due to the fact that I have a pit bull. Never did I think that society was actually this close minded to pit bulls. When I went to the office and they told me they didn't accept aggressive dogs I couldn't help but cry right there and then, my baby girl aggressive? She is so gentle and loving. I said " I will not stand for this, my dog stays with me and that's final!" And I went hunting looking for a house to rent where she could have her own back yard. When I called about one and said I had a pit bull the response I got was "NO! no vicious dogs". Vicious????? Are these people serious??? This brings me to think how ignorant people are. A man raped his daughter from age 4 to 10! And they gave him 10 yrs. That should be enough time for him to change? He probably had a mental disability they said. I know this, because it was my father. But these loyal animals are caged to become aggressive, sleep in their own mess, but no they cant change they must die. Even worse the ones who haven't even been trained to harm have to suffer the consequences. The dogs get put to sleep, and the people who abuse these animals get a couple of years and a 2nd chance!
Luckily we have found a couple of houses that accept pit bulls and will be moving ASAP. I hope this world changes soon because I am pretty sure that every pit bull that has been put to sleep will be guarding the gates to heaven and when the REAL aggressive animals show up they will be turned away with
 "No! no vicious animals".


                     The only living creature who loves you more than themselves. A DOG.

Sunday, July 15, 2012

Adopting a Pit bull



Tomorrow will be 1 week that my husband and I adopted a 7 month old pit bull. And this has been one of the best decisions we have made. Our life has changed completely, we wake up early for a morning run and also have a night run. We understand the commitment we have made with adopting her, we know she needs exercise 1st discipline/training 2nd and affection after the first 2 have been completed. Are pit bulls for everyone? No, every single dog needs exercise no matter the breed but some do need more than others. It breaks my heart to see how so many people judge this dog due to its breed when before anything its a dog and with the proper training, exercise, and discipline this is one of the best and most loyal dogs. We named her Lilo and she is the most submissive and gentle puppy we have ever met. Her first owners clipped her ears after 3 months they took her to a pound where she would be put to sleep because she was a cropped eared pit bull (a choice she did not make a choice a human made). she was then rescued and put into a foster home and we came across her 4 months later. We chose her and she is now part of our pack. God gave us the authority over all creatures how we handle that authority is our choice. so please don’t judge a DOG for what a HUMAN has trained it to be.



A Wife.... A Proverbs 31 Wife.

I haven’t posted in a while, feel like I abandoned my blog. I was in Auburn Alabama, it was beautiful so many trees. Definitely a college town. I have also started reading a new book ” My so called life as a Proverbs 31 wife”. I grew up in an environment where the man was always right and if he said fire didn’t burn the woman agreed. NOT ME! I said I would run the house and if a man couldn’t live with that then I didn’t need him, of course I was an ignorant teenager. Now that I have met God I want to be what the bible says I should be. It has not been easy to submit to my husband after living my life swearing to my self that it would be my way or the high way. But it is something I am working on. Please leave your comments telling me what you think a good wife is, I want to learn. Also tell me your opinion on the proverbs 31 wife. Read the verse proverbs 31 10-31 I admire the woman but it seems a little impossible…. well maybe not.

Mothers Day

Happy Mothers Day to all the moms out there. What a beautiful gift it is to be a mother, and to have one. She is someone we usually take for granted. Someone we usually call when we are tired and cant go anymore, but do we stop and see how tired she might be? There are those who take this day and woman for granted, they don’t realize that there are some who are at a cemetery on Mother’s day missing that person that we still have. Is she perfect? No, no one is. She is still mom though.
My mom, the woman who does too much, who has worked up to three jobs at a time just to keep us fed. Then there is my mother-in-law she is the best cook ever! No really don’t believe me go see for yourself at The Vintage Rose tearoom in The Antique Emporium theantiqueemporium.net best quiche out there. Then there are those dads who have had to be mom as well & the Moms who do it all by themselves, these people need a trophy. So go spend the day with that wonderful woman who tries to tell you the “right way” to live your life HAHA, no they mean well. Take her flowers, and tell her you love her.
This is the only picture I have with my mother before I turned 11 yrs old.

Just Life


  Hi!!! My name is Valerie Cal, and I will be blogging about life. I did some research on blogging and everyone said to blog about something you are passionate about and to be clear. Well I just want to blog about life. There are people who think they have the hardest life….. well there are some who have it worst. There are those who say they have the best life, but is it all that “perfect” as they claim? OH! and my favorite life isn’t fair. Well this is not going to be about “the worst life”, “best life”, or a “fair life”. It’s about just life.



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